Singles Speak Out: Dating, Shadchanim & The System

March 1, 2025
1h 56m
Dating in the Jewish world is anything but simple. We sit down with Dovi Neuburger (from Teaneck) & Eli Geller (from Lakewood), for the guys part. Then we (Gitta, my wife joined me) sit down with Nechami Tenenbaum (from Detroit) & Rachel Pekarsky (from Elizabeth, NJ). These four singles have very different experiences and opinions on navigating the shidduch system, dating pressures, and the so-called "shidduch crisis." We delve into:- The unspoken rules of matchmaking- How expectations vs. reality can break people- The stigma of being single in the community- Are matchmakers helping or hurting the process?- The brutal truth about dating apps vs. traditional setupsMore from Dovi here: His IG: https://www.instagram.com/dovineuburger/?More from Nechami here: Beauty Products (this link is for women): https://defiancebeauty.com/Her Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/we-are-women/id1524865398✬ SPONSORS OF THE EPISODE ✬► Wheels To Lease: The Best Place for Your Next RideFor over 35 years, Wheels To Lease has offered stress-free car buying with upfront pricing, no hidden fees, and door-to-door delivery. Call today!→ CALL/TEXT: 718-871-8715→ EMAIL: inspire@wheelstolease.com→ WEB: https://bit.ly/41lnzYU→ WHATSAPP: https://wa.link/0w46ce► Twillory: Suits that are COMFYUse promo code: INSPIRE for $18 OFF→ https://Twillory.com/► BitBean: Smart Custom SoftwareLooking to scale your business? Contact Bitbean today for a FREE CONSULTATION→ https://bitbean.link/MeEBlY► Feldheim: Best Purim Books10% OFF on Feldheim.com with code INSPIREOut of the Fire 🔥 Discover the hidden lessons of Purim with Rav Moshe Weinberger’s powerful insights, guiding you to a deeper connection with Megillas Esther.→ https://bit.ly/OutOfTheFireLLGates of the Palace 🏰 A beautifully illustrated Purim story for kids, bringing Chazal’s timeless teachings to life in a way they’ll never forget.→ https://bit.ly/GatesOfThePalaceLLInside Purim 🎭 Unmask the deeper layers of the Purim story with Rabbi Aryeh Pinchas Strickoff’s fascinating insights from Talmud, Midrash, and Rabbinic sources.→ https://bit.ly/INSIDEPURIMLLJoin the Lchaim Book Club→ https://bit.ly/3YsHoMp✬ IN MEMORY OF ✬This episode is in memory of:• Shimon Dovid ben Yaakov Shloima• Miriam Sarah bas Yaakov Moshe✬ Donate and Inspire Millions (Tax-Deductible) ✬Your generous donation enables us at Living Lchaim to share uplifting messages globally, enrich lives, and foster positive change worldwide! Thank you!https://www.LivingLchaim.com/donateOur free call-in-to-listen feature is here:• USA: (605) 477-2100• UK: 0333-366-0154• ISRAEL: 079-579-5088Have a specific question? email us hi@livinglchaim.comWhatsApp us feedback and get first access to episodes:914-222-5513Lchaim.
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